Viagra

I canceled a date a couple weeks ago with a man that required Cialis to maintain an erection. I know there are medical conditions that require medication but with Viagra and other ED drugs, I do feel that not everyone taking it needs it.

Some men assume because my husband is twenty years my senior that I would be more sympathetic to someone who requires assistance, they assume that my husband might use it as well which is far from factual – he doesn’t. Mind you we do not have sex every day either but taking a little pill wouldn’t change that. And who the fuck said we should be having sex every day for x hours?

If you experience an erection for more than four hours… contact your closest middle aged woman. I laugh but there is also a benefit to the pills, I am sure it has resurrected a sexual intimacy with some couples – but I am also aware it has put on pressure as well.

Somewhere in the back of my brain is a little voice that does not agree with tampering of natural ebbs and flows of the sexual appetite. Also it is a political one for me, where is our female version of the little blue pill? Just because you have a little blue pill does that mean you are somehow more entitled to sex? And not to mention the social pressure guys are put under because now it is as simple as ‘taking a pill’ to fix things. I keep envisioning retirement communities where grandpas shake their little blue pill tabs at grandmothers. Doctors are handing this shit out like candy! And what does a 19 year old need one anyway?

I have a fucked up view of my holistic bodily functions, right down to the benefits of a semen soaked womb, the functions of orgasms before/during a menstrual cycle and also benefits to repose and denial. Just because I don’t want to mess with pills and creams doesn’t mean I expect others too not try or use them but I am limited on how involved I want to be by my own bias. I have always been involved with older men and never have come across one that needed an ED drug, but recently I have been in contact with men my own age that take it.

Not to mention being asked ‘should I take a pill before we meet up, I would hate to waste one or not be able to perform if we get along’ was a huge turn off.

One comment on “Viagra

  1. kdaddy23 says:

    Of course, neither Viagra or Cialis will make a man horny – it just gives him enough wood to handle the business. Importantly, for men, it restores confidence; one of the things that bug us is not being able to get it up. My wife asked the same question: Where’s the pill for women? Women have tried Viagra and have said that it works to get them ‘up’ for sex because y’all can get an erection and the drug does increase blood flow to, um, certain parts of your body.

    Some dudes do take it… and they don’t need it, flirting with the “four hour erection” thing; I think if they knew (1) how dangerous this is and (2) what they do to make that boner go away, they’d leave it alone – better them than me.

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