D is my husband and today we were talking about cock shots. D says:
Girls don’t get cock shots, it is quid pro quo: they are sending you a picture of what they want to see.
They want to see nudity.
I give you something you give me something.
Guys, throughout our culture, the male vs female view of the quid pro quo is different: guys are attempting to make a trade and this is why it can seem they are foam at the mouth about sex.
Ever see how a woman tips? Guys just throw down twenty bucks but a woman calculates 15 percent.
It is not that the twenty bucks was not important, it is not that we necessarily have extra, but in the male brain it is a mark of largess and conspicuous consumption.
Girls are bargainers guys are traders
Guys don’t understand it, to us frugality means you are unsuccessful.
Like penis pictures, you do not want to not hand them out because it means you don’t have something to trade with.
We do not see a difference between men and women; we trade with women as if we are trading with another man. We don’t understand that women expect themselves and others to drive the hardest bargain possible.
Because what is the difference? If you keep your face out of it, if you send me a tittie pic, it could be anyone tits, there are no tittie identification data bases or sites or tittie police but I tell ya it is not happening most of the time.
Girls don’t get anonymous cock.
Guys love anonymous titties.
And what women interpret as pushy is really a guy brain who believes he is not being treated fairly, equitably in a trade.
We don’t understand the emotional attachment girls put on sending a guy tittie pic. As if sending one now she’s emotionally trashed forever because she sent some guy her tits… we just don’t get that.
Women will text you back and forth about sex, graphic about wanting to do this and that, but will she ever send you a picture of that cooch? Oh no! She is willing and wants to show you how her mind works but to show you an inch of fuking skin… no that’s different.
and we guys just don’t get the difference.