Tell me you wouldn’t love to have a picture like this of yourself!
I sometimes wonder why it is I don’t let a professional come in and try to capture a moment like this because I certainly can not. My husband refers to this as ‘artsy’ and most men would but we women have seen (and been in) the pictures you guys take of us and lets just agree to disagree: men see boobs, we ladies notice our nose is crooked.
Early in my relationship with my husband I let him take pictures of me; outside naked in the snow. I had a great time, he enjoyed taking them and I didn’t much care how they turned out but there was not one that I would consider good. He was more taken with tits and ass – my mouth was open in the middle of saying something in half of them, my eye or eyes were closed in the other half and though he got what he wanted I was sort of bummed none of them were pretty: they were just tits and ass with a lovely snow landscape in the background. Whoopee.
My husband does not let me take pictures of him – I have but he vowed a while ago that there were just some things he no longer wanted to see at his age: himself naked is one. I always found it duplicitous that he continue to ask me to sit for him while denying me the same enjoyment.
Something inside me feels it would be a great justice to have a partner feel the pressure of ‘staying hard’ for a picture, preforming and having a stranger in the room watching them the same way men look at us. I think they too should feel sexually objectified now and again after all if we ladies had pictures like this of our men – you bet it would be the wallpaper on my computer, shared with special friends, looked at daily and nothing less than lust inspiring. Hell if it was ‘artsy’ enough I might even frame the thing and hang it up in my walk in closet!
It’s funny how we women are expected to remain playful, adventurous and open to such things when our men are not… this does not register in the male brain as a version pornography because it is lacking something they want to see but I don’t think this picture was intended for the male brain anyhow.
I wonder if PC would let me…I just might have to insist.