Q: why is it so difficult for us to find a female willing to join me and wife? We are good people, but it seems like this search has been going on forever! Where do we go, it is just sex after all!
A: If you could see my face in it lays all the answers to this ridiculous question.
Yes it is just sex, but sex still comes with standards – why is it so hard for you couples to get that?
Single ladies are rarely online looking to get in the middle of a couple: some might attend swinger’s parties but they rarely go alone, they are usually on a man’s arm. It is not a fantasy a lot of women have, to be the ‘spice’ to your sex life – she has one of her own!
The average single woman can walk down to 7/11 and pick up a guy: if she is single and using the internet chances are she has some limitations in her situation or is looking for something more specific than the average pick up can provide – and that is what most couples are, just a pick up. It is not going to lead to something serious and long term.
Usually couples break down into some strange desperation/frustration because this didn’t happen as soon as they posted their Craigslist ad – it is kind of sad really. If you two aren’t fucking and having a great time without me, why the hell would I want to get in the middle of that?! We all have fantasies, we all want things to happen, but you couples get downright obnoxious with accusations of single women not being ‘real’ or as you said ‘it is just sex’.
And I am speaking now as a single woman that has had sex with couples: we are weary of the potential for double drama! It’s all fun and sex till it isn’t. I do not know what your ad said but you couples come with a shit load of baggage. I have been asked to ‘talk her into it’ or ‘make the first move’ I have been told that I could go down on her but she might not go down on me and the worst is hearing that ‘my husband just wants to watch and maybe join’ … WTF?! Are you people even talking to each other realistically?!
And where am I supposed to find glory and joy in this? Married cock is not the draw here, the couple is, so chances are best increased if you were to go someplace that has single girls in the mix – where they can observe you, meet up or have things happen in a safe level playing field type environment like a swingers club, party ect. Because the louder you scream the less we listen and go off and find other people to have sex with.